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Thursday, June 08, 2006

Guilt

I was talking and thinking about guilt today. The talk was with a fellow contract worker, and we both had to admit that we really don't work our butts off for fairly good wages - I've certainly worked harder for less money. Should I charge less because I'm good at what I do and it doesn't take me as long as it might take someone else?

We talked to a real estate agent today to get an idea of what we might want to do to sell this house. The whole bigger house thing brings guilt because I can look at pictures of how people live elsewhere and realize that I'm already way ahead of much of the world's population.

Somehow those guilt thoughts led to the general sense of you should feel guilty that I think came to me through the religio-cultural (I just made up that term, kind of goes with the flow of terms like socio-economic) way I was raised. You're a sinner. Feel guilty.

In the midst of that one more thought managed to creep in. It was this:

Maybe God wants you to feel thankful, not guilty.

3 Comments:

Blogger RottenRobbie said...

Abraham and Job were rich men. No houses, but I'm sure they had swanky tents compared to most...extra flaps and everything.

If I read the scriptures rightly, God blessed these guys because they chose to acknowledge Him and live righteously, which I'm sure extended to their fellow man. I'm sure they enjoyed their huge flocks and their riches. Would he gift them simply as a means of torture, "here, be blessed...and let's be about the guilt already..."?

To not take joy in blessings and in the practical wonders of this life is an insult to God if you ask me, so long as it is tempered with loving Him and your neighbor, party on baby, take the pay raise and I'll take five bedrooms, if you please...

11:49 PM  
Blogger Jude said...

Next week Monday is a no-can do. tuesday morning and thursday morning are the other times I'm busy.

10:40 AM  
Blogger Cindy said...

Perhaps you need to carefully define guilt.

guilt n.

1.The fact of being responsible for the commission of an offense.

2.Law. Culpability for a crime or lesser breach of regulations that carries a legal penalty.

3.a. Remorseful awareness of having done something wrong.
b. Self-reproach for supposed inadequacy or wrongdoing.

4.Guilty conduct; sin.

Seems to me that it's more about being responsible for something that about feelings.

That said - It's true that you need to live where you are. If you tried to live in a grass hut here and serve one meal a day you'd both freeze and have your kids taken away.

Yes, be thankful for the blessings. Be aware of what God is calling you to in regards to the rest of the world. And remember that "there is, therefore, no condemnation..." which, I suspect, is what is actually masquerading as guilt.

1:18 PM  

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